My sister wrote on her blog that : We all have or should have a few minutes to spare for keeping in touch, even to just say...nothing much was going on today...
That is so wise. Time is free and we can give it without spending a lot. Giving time is love nowadays I think.
I have heard horrible stories here in Sweden.When a loved one passes away people don't have time even to bury them with dignity. They look in their big thick calenders and tries to squeeze in 15 minutes.
Undertakers have reported about families sitting with their calenders and finally being able to take not a day, not half a day but maybe 1 hour and after the funeral back to work.
Is this the society we want to have? Is this how you want it to be when it's time for you to go?
I can honestly say that this is NOT what I want. At least out of respect for loved ones you can at least devote 1 day for funeral, remembering with friends and family and dinner with the closest ones. When I go I want everyone to have a party. To eat good, drink good, sing,speaking about me with happiness and cheering me.
And that takes more than 15 minutes!! Remember that!
From one thing to another. We had a snowstorm yesterday. Chaos of course in traffic but I managed to get home in one piece. It came around 3 dm and that is much. Today a lot of it melted so wet snow and now tonight it's freezing making it icy. The worst weather I know!! Tomorrow I'm going to Norrtälje so I hope they will have cleaned the roads.
That is so wise. Time is free and we can give it without spending a lot. Giving time is love nowadays I think.
I have heard horrible stories here in Sweden.When a loved one passes away people don't have time even to bury them with dignity. They look in their big thick calenders and tries to squeeze in 15 minutes.
Undertakers have reported about families sitting with their calenders and finally being able to take not a day, not half a day but maybe 1 hour and after the funeral back to work.
Is this the society we want to have? Is this how you want it to be when it's time for you to go?
I can honestly say that this is NOT what I want. At least out of respect for loved ones you can at least devote 1 day for funeral, remembering with friends and family and dinner with the closest ones. When I go I want everyone to have a party. To eat good, drink good, sing,speaking about me with happiness and cheering me.
And that takes more than 15 minutes!! Remember that!
From one thing to another. We had a snowstorm yesterday. Chaos of course in traffic but I managed to get home in one piece. It came around 3 dm and that is much. Today a lot of it melted so wet snow and now tonight it's freezing making it icy. The worst weather I know!! Tomorrow I'm going to Norrtälje so I hope they will have cleaned the roads.
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